The Insignificant Mother

This is why mothers must be strong! Keep your own notes, when you know a meeting is pending contact them to say they need to check your availability and send an agenda a week before. Go with your own folder and notebook and hand out copies of sheets you have prepared about your child and request that it is attached to the minutes before distribution! Take your voice back.

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It started before the meeting even began. Emails, phone calls and discussions between you all to synchronise diaries and finalise a time and location that suited everyone. Everyone, of course, except the insignificant mother. My diary was never checked. No-one asked if the time suited me or if the location was convenient. As long as the ‘professionals’ are fine with it that is what matters apparently.

You all had weeks of notice. I received the letter in the post just days before. You all knew the agenda, I didn’t.

So here we are all sat around the table. I notice you all smartly dressed, folders and pens at the ready and reports all prepared, while I sit there in yesterday’s clothes trying to remember if I got around to brushing my teeth this morning or not.

Introduction are done and apologies made, yet a few chairs still lie empty. It…

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